I injured myself yesterday really bad. We had some objects and boxes on the floor near the entry way of our apartment that my son and I had gathered the previous night to add some additional garage sale items for the next day. Jaren’s godfather, Robert had allowed us to bring our stuff to sale in his garage sale. Jaren had done an excellent job at cleaning out his room which is a really big deal because he likes to hold onto his things. And I told my son that he could keep the money from my stuff that sold too. I said, “This is your summer money so make it last.”
I got up in the morning, still sleepy with very little light in the apartment. I had folded some blankets and walked to the coat closet to put them away. Just before getting to the closet, I tripped over some of the garage sale items. I went down hard along with our kitchen counter stool. I knew I hurt something bad. I knocked the wind out of myself and the first thing I thought was to tell my son that I was okay. Because it was such a huge strain to be able to talk at first, it sounded as if I was crying but I wasn’t. I almost cried though. The pain was that bad. I sat there on the floor for a few minutes, unable to get up at first.
When I was able to stand up, I knew I did some damage. For one, my pinky toe that I previously broke a few years back had that same kind of pain so I was pretty sure I broke it again. But that’s not what really concerned me. It was my ribs on my left side that were throbbing. I had a lot of pain. Any movement was very difficult and painful. At the same time, in the back of my mind, I knew my son was counting on me to help him with the garage sale.
Jaren and his godfather started selling on Friday while I was at work. Sometime around lunch, Robert had gotten really sick. He wasn’t sure if it was the flu, food poisoning or what. Jaren took over selling for the rest of the day on Friday. I picked up Jaren Friday night and helped him pack up and place all the sale items back in the garage for the next day.
With Jaren’s godfather out of commission, I knew Jaren needed my help on Saturday. So I tried as best I could to put on my big girl face and push through the pain. I told my son that I would help him get set up for the garage sale but that I also may need to leave at some point to go to the emergency room for x-rays. Jaren understood.
We loaded the car and I drove us over to Robert’s house. Robert was still very sick and bed ridden. Luckily, Jaren’s godfather has two roommates and they were able to help Jaren carry the larger stuff (TV, etc) onto the front lawn. I helped with the smaller boxes. We got tables set up and organized. I waited to see if the pain would subside or go away but it didn’t. I was hoping it would. We were trying to make money, not spend money. But every time I reached down, sat down, or got up the pain would shoot into my side. Not to mention walking around with my broken toe.
Here I had been without insurance for over a year. During that time, I tried very hard to stay healthy and with God’s help, I was. No illnesses, no flu, no injuries. My insurance kicked in May 10th 2014 and a month later, bam!
I shouldn’t complain. Thank goodness this occurred after I had insurance.
About four hours into the garage sale with my pain no less painful, I opted to go to CareNow Urgent Care. They’re like doctors’ offices and ER’s combined. They are open on the weekends, they have X-ray equipment, and the co-pay is much cheaper than the ER; mines was $35.00. And the best part is you can do Web Check-ins which means you check-in online. After you check-in, they call you to confirm your appointment and your illness/injury. Then they ask you about how far away you are from the office. This is so they will know when to call you to come in so that you don’t have to wait as long in the waiting room.
After reviewing the X-rays, CareNow confirmed that I had a broken toe. They also said that I had a rib contusion. The doctor said that a contusion is equally as painful as a fractured rib and the treatment is the same. She gave me a wrap for my ribs and prescribed two pain meds. The doctor said she had prescribed Ibuprofen, 800 mg and then said she also prescribed a narcotic. I was like, “narcotic.” I knew it was something serious for them to prescribe that kind of pain medicine. I guess they knew something that I didn’t know at that point. As with most injuries, breaks or bruises, if I hurt this bad on the first day, the next day would surely double my pain. Since I was driving, I was unable to take the narcotic pain medicine so I took one Ibuprofen which did reduce some pain. Especially, considering I had spent five to six hours moving around, lifting boxes, setting up for a garage sale, walking around, waiting on customers, any pain relief was better than no pain relief.
So I get back to the garage sale and share my diagnosis with Jaren, Robert and his roommates. I sat down outside with Jaren as he finished up with the garage sale. Then, just before cleaning up, we sat on the front porch for a moment, gazing at a most beautiful tree across the street. We’ve admired this tree in the past. Jaren mentioned how healing it was to watch the tree so much so that it inspired him to write a meditation for a lesson he was doing for his Sunday school class the next day. We both agreed that the tree seemed to be nurturing and comforting, almost mother-like.
Then it was time to close down the garage sale and we both were less than enthusiastic about packing up the remaining items and moving them into the garage. Jaren was both hot and tired. I was hot, tired, injured and in still in pain. As we were packing up, I was making requests or suggestions which Jaren was not happy about. Okay, maybe I was barking orders a little. We both bickered at each other and I felt unappreciated. Despite my injury, I was helping him as best I could. Whether it was the meds, the long day, the pain, I’m not sure but I began to have an emotional breakdown. I reminded Jaren of my injury and that per doctors’ orders, I wasn’t supposed to be lifting anything. Technically, I should have been sitting or laying down, healing. I also reminded him that I was not benefitting financially from this garage sale in no way. I was providing merchandise and free labor service.
It was not a shining moment for either of us. In the midst of our argument, Jaren’s god father could hear us and came out to intervene. Calmly, he mediated our conversation and diffused our anger and frustration. Then he thanked us dearly for all we both had done.
Later that evening, Jaren humbly apologized to me.
Today, I dropped off my son to spend Father’s Day with his father. Tomorrow is another day…